> Judging from her "I wouldn't make jokes if I had kids" comment That comment really hit me too when I first read it. Because I have kids and I would make joke

> Judging from her "I wouldn't make jokes if I had kids" comment That comment really hit me too when I first read it. Because I have kids and I would make jokes like that. I thought it was insensitive. But then I tried to see things from her point of view and maybe I wouldn't feel so bad about Hank. He got a new job quickly, he didn't get death threats. And maybe she doesn't have kids, so she's just spouting off some opinion about how you should behave as a parent without really knowing. But so what? Why should we be so angry about this and vilify her? I think much of the anger directed at Adria in this thread is irrational — our feelings are telling us to make this a big deal when it isn't, the problem is elsewhere.