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> Adria did not feel safe at PyCon. This should be a huge problem for us. I don't know what to think of her explanations, which may or may not be sincere, and

> Adria did not feel safe at PyCon. This should be a huge problem for us. I don't know what to think of her explanations, which may or may not be sincere, and may or may not have been made up after the fact. Lack of non-white males in the tech industry is definitely a larger issue than this individual case. > I don't think Adria is very focused on these guys, and for a lot of people that comes off as hatred or a lack of empathy — especially because we, as guys, empathise in particular with Hank. So her lack of acknowledgement is so easily felt as cruel. I wouldn't go as far as hatred, but lack of empathy, certainly. Judging from her "I wouldn't make jokes if I had kids" comment, she clearly believes he had it coming.

interpol_p 12y ago
> Judging from her "I wouldn't make jokes if I had kids" comment That comment really hit me too when I first read it. Because I have kids and I would make jokes like that. I thought it was insensitive. But then I tried to see things from her point of view and maybe I wouldn't feel so bad about Hank. He got a new job quickly, he didn't get death threats. And maybe she doesn't have kids, so she's just spouting off some opinion about how you should behave as a parent without really knowing. But so what? Why should we be so angry about this and vilify her? I think much of the anger directed at Adria in this thread is irrational — our feelings are telling us to make this a big deal when it isn't, the problem is elsewhere.