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I don't know how useful this information is, because it's purely my opinion.. but, besides 'experience' and 'open mind' that are two pretty obvious ones, there
by sekasi 12y ago
I don't know how useful this information is, because it's purely my opinion.. but, besides 'experience' and 'open mind' that are two pretty obvious ones, there are a few things I always look for and probably just as many that are unconscious;
* What they are motivated by [the motivation itself gives you clarity in their personality. Lack of motivation does as well. None are bad traits, they just reveal things]
* Posture and body language
* Eye contact and eye movement when speaking
* How they speak of other people, good and bad
* Lying [everyone lies. some people lie about important things]
* Reaction to criticism/blame
* Evidence of perseverance
* Dealing with silence [some people call them 'awkward silence'. That's pretty revealing ;D]
* Balance of aggressiveness and passiveness
* Ambition or lack thereof [no right or wrong here]
* Levels of child-like enthusiasm for passions versus task driven enthusiasm
* Social interests [again, unsocial introverts aren't necessarily a 'bad' trait. Just something that adds to your personality]
* Instability
I just wrote those up then, it's hard to verbalize, admittedly.