I like imperfect stuff. It has more character. I can't really see how finding a flaw in a person could change my attraction to them (particularly sexually, tho

I like imperfect stuff. It has more character. I can't really see how finding a flaw in a person could change my attraction to them (particularly sexually, though I know you said that wasn't exactly what you meant). Especially this flaw--it's not a moral failing. Moral failings are, indeed, distasteful. If it's 3 hours per year, I can certainly handle that to be in love.