Personally, I don't think explicit asexuality exists. Nor bisexuality, nor homosexuality, nor heterosexuality. It seems to me that gender and libido are spectra

Personally, I don't think explicit asexuality exists. Nor bisexuality, nor homosexuality, nor heterosexuality. It seems to me that gender and libido are spectra, and that people can be basically anything. Your brain likes certain colors or music or pictures more than others, and so it's set to certain places in these gender and libido spectra. People name themselves with whatever they're closest to, but that doesn't always mean they are exactly that. It's a normal thing to not conform explicitly to one word or definition. Doesn't mean you have to make up your own, either.