Congratulations: You just rediscovered solution #3 to the fundamental problem in life! From the E. Fromm, The Art of Loving (say, love and its connections wit

Congratulations: You just rediscovered solution #3 to the fundamental problem in life! From the E. Fromm, The Art of Loving (say, love and its connections with emotions, psychology, and religion), I simplify and paraphrase: "For humans, the fundamental problem in life is doing something effective about feeling alone. Only four solutions have been found, #1 love of spouse, #2 love of God, #3 membership in a group, and #4 [not recommended]." So you rediscovered #3! Darned good!