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1) For some reason it got a lot easier to not care about things I knew, rationally, that I should not care about, right around age 35. 2) The red pill. I don't

1) For some reason it got a lot easier to not care about things I knew, rationally, that I should not care about, right around age 35. 2) The red pill. I don't agree with everything what comes out of that cesspool of a community, but there is a lot of ugly truth in it as well. 3) Kids, job, sleep (and, therefore, happiness). Pick two in your twenties & thirties. However, if you pick the first two, sleep comes later. If you pick the last two, kids probably won't. The happiest people I know picked the outer two.

mahyarm 12y ago
Isn't the sleep part more the first few years where kids don't keep a single-block-of-time sleep schedule? Then you have even more free time when they go to school.
- carsongross 12y ago
  If you have three kids two years apart, it's about a decade of bad sleep. At two most kids are sleeping and at four they are sufficiently independent that your mental fatigue starts getting better. Of course, at that point, organized sports start up. But at least you are getting sleep again.
OmarIsmail 12y ago
As someone who has picked the first two, glad to hear that sleep comes later... though I think my wife will be much happier to hear that.
oldclock 12y ago
> The red pill. I don't agree with everything what comes out of that cesspool of a community, but there is a lot of ugly truth in it as well Examples of "ugly truths" on TRP? All I've seen there is trash and misogyny.
- mycroft-holmes 12y ago
  The general realization that men and women are different and probably want different things in life. That alone causes controversy within the feminist spheres of social media.
  - itsjareds 12y ago
    Because it's massively overgeneralizing. As has been discussed ad nauseam elsewhere, people are influenced by the gender roles thrusted onto them from birth. Gender isn't binary, and the way a person acts doesn't always have to agree with what is "typical" of their gender.
- hashberry 12y ago
  The dual mating strategies of women, who classify men into lovers or providers. http://therationalmale.com/2014/06/18/controlling-interests/ http://therationalmale.com/2014/06/18/controlling-interests/
mycroft-holmes 12y ago
I have to say, you have some balls to say TRP without a throwaway account.

mahyarm 12y ago

Isn't the sleep part more the first few years where kids don't keep a single-block-of-time sleep schedule? Then you have even more free time when they go to school.

carsongross 12y ago
If you have three kids two years apart, it's about a decade of bad sleep. At two most kids are sleeping and at four they are sufficiently independent that your mental fatigue starts getting better. Of course, at that point, organized sports start up. But at least you are getting sleep again.

OmarIsmail 12y ago

As someone who has picked the first two, glad to hear that sleep comes later... though I think my wife will be much happier to hear that.

oldclock 12y ago

> The red pill. I don't agree with everything what comes out of that cesspool of a community, but there is a lot of ugly truth in it as well Examples of "ugly truths" on TRP? All I've seen there is trash and misogyny.

mycroft-holmes 12y ago
The general realization that men and women are different and probably want different things in life. That alone causes controversy within the feminist spheres of social media.
- itsjareds 12y ago
  Because it's massively overgeneralizing. As has been discussed ad nauseam elsewhere, people are influenced by the gender roles thrusted onto them from birth. Gender isn't binary, and the way a person acts doesn't always have to agree with what is "typical" of their gender.
hashberry 12y ago
The dual mating strategies of women, who classify men into lovers or providers. http://therationalmale.com/2014/06/18/controlling-interests/ http://therationalmale.com/2014/06/18/controlling-interests/

mycroft-holmes 12y ago

I have to say, you have some balls to say TRP without a throwaway account.