Well that's it then. It's just because you're a non-coder (presuming these negative experiences have been when speaking to coders rather than men in general). Y

Well that's it then. It's just because you're a non-coder (presuming these negative experiences have been when speaking to coders rather than men in general). You're in the same boat as me! Try coming to a YC BBQ - that was a pretty tech-intense experience for me! You'll find a lot of the coders that you feel uncomfortable with, would feel quite uncomfortable at the type of events you revel in.