Funny, I never do things I don't want to do. I do, in fact decide how to spend my time. I've never found any value in letting other people make these decisions

Funny, I never do things I don't want to do. I do, in fact decide how to spend my time. I've never found any value in letting other people make these decisions for me. There are trade-offs for sure - I often choose to do things that I find less pleasant, but only with the expectation of a future payoff, or else because I'm happily making a sacrifice for the happiness of someone I care about. But in every case, I do choose what I do.