It always bugs me when I see people stuck in that mindset. I was for all of my teens and early 20's. I feel like it's true in some sense but I ended up using it

It always bugs me when I see people stuck in that mindset. I was for all of my teens and early 20's. I feel like it's true in some sense but I ended up using it as an excuse to continue down a less desirable but easier path e.g. keeping a miserable job because I needed money and finding a better one was hard. Luckily, I had good friends to help snap me out of it.