I really don't want this to come across as sarcastic or mean, I'm genuinely curious. What you say is true of the retelling of any event at all. But I feel as i

I really don't want this to come across as sarcastic or mean, I'm genuinely curious. What you say is true of the retelling of any event at all. But I feel as if this kind of "two sides" post comes up particularly often on posts about women suffering discrimination. I wonder if that is just my own personal biases showing through, or this is a common pattern.