I'm not supporting the idea that we should police what people are saying or limit their freedom, I don't condone that. However I do think there's a place for c

I'm not supporting the idea that we should police what people are saying or limit their freedom, I don't condone that. However I do think there's a place for civil discussion and the idea that we're a social species attempting to all understand each-other, what each-other experience in life, and how we can all interact in a way that's collaborative is extremely important to our collective improvement, I think. So sure, say whatever you want to say, that's your own right but it will inevitably cut you off or out of the collaborative environment some people desire to be a part of and work hard to create, that is if what you say isn't shaped in such a way to honor and respect other people's own individual experiences and preferences. My words were intended to be a reminder and not to be taken as policing (even if I wanted to, I can't!) I firmly believe personal desires and preferences can be freely expressed in a manner that honors the person holding them and also honors the possibly different preferences and desires of other people.