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However, the wannabe founders reading it are also probably single males who don't understand marriage. We do, however, probably all share a very similar carica
by caffeine 17y ago
However, the wannabe founders reading it are also probably single males who don't understand marriage. We do, however, probably all share a very similar caricature of marriage - and thus the analogy is useful in communicating the bizarre mix of love, hate, co-dependence, shared depression and elation, occasional jealousy and careful maintenance that characterizes the relationship between two guys in a foxhole with laptops.
- jlees 17y agoit's particularly interesting when your co-founder is female. (or, you're a female co-founder teaming up with a guy.)
- caffeine 17y agoThat is interesting - have you done this? How did it go?
- jlees 17y agoYes. I'm the XX. It just seems a different dynamic than you'd get between two guys or two women. (Obviously I've not directly experienced the former, but I've seen it from the outside enough - it's kind of the model.) I'm a kind of bloke-ish girl, but even so I think I worry about feelings and opinions and perceptions a bit more - I bring that aspect of looking at situations to the startup. 'Course, my "job" is to code, whereas my cofounder is meant to be thinking about other people; it gets interesting. There's also an entirely different dynamic: minority programmes. I took part in Astia, a women-in-business networking and training group. All the contacts from that equate the startup with me (the woman) and my cofounder's not being treated very well by them at all. (There are a few other reasons beyond gender there but it is something I doubt two-guy startups have to face!)
- JoeAltmaier 17y agoRight! So most unmarried founders are not really thinking marriage, but girlfriend. Or rooommate.