Exactly. One of the things my first boss tried to impress upon me was how small the world really was. Specifically he was referring to the software scene in Bos

Exactly. One of the things my first boss tried to impress upon me was how small the world really was. Specifically he was referring to the software scene in Boston, but the point holds wherever. There were a handful of times over the years where holding back and not being a bridge arsonist really paid off for just that reason. It's a lot more obvious these days with things like LinkedIn. There are very few people that I would talk to for a potential new job who aren't either directly connected or 1 step away from many of my former and current coworkers. People talk, it's better to be remembered as the good guy and not the jerk.