This is 100% consistent with my personal career experience. The catch being that if I post details pointing fingers, I will be summarily chastened. Just today,

This is 100% consistent with my personal career experience. The catch being that if I post details pointing fingers, I will be summarily chastened. Just today, I read some dumb quote that stuck in my craw: "When you complain, you become a victim. Leave the situation something something something." Imagine what a career looks like when you leave the situation? Mine.