A lot of people are late bloomers. Then again, some people are just incapable of socializing. I know at least one person like that who is older than you, singl

A lot of people are late bloomers. Then again, some people are just incapable of socializing. I know at least one person like that who is older than you, single, and gets looked over for a lot of activities at the community group we both frequent because people feel that he's incapable of holding a conversation. Yet he's harmless and tries to be social but it just comes out wrong and in all his years he has never learned. Then on the other hand I'm 30 and I just recently in the last 4-5 years started blossoming. I'm not saying I'm extrovert yet but I've realized a detail about being introvert and that is that we thrive in social situations as long as we can rest after and recuperate. Resting requires silence and alone time, or time with very close friends and spouses.