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"The ones who whine, smirk, or the least bit annoyed or confused should be dropped like dead weight." the gp basically said you can't.
by aaronblohowiak 17y ago
"The ones who whine, smirk, or the least bit annoyed or confused should be dropped like dead weight."
the gp basically said you can't.
- mahmud 17y agoI have dismissed a huge spectrum of "negative" reactions as all bad; these range from short and quick despair followed by action to fix the situation, to the more extreme total emotional breakdown and road-side sobbing. The brush need not be that broad, but you can usually gauge how much of a go-getter someone is by seeing their reactions, unconstrained by social appearances, keeping face, etc. People can fake calmness just by being shy :-) so you need to take into account how well someone takes bad news; I have seen people who made nothing of complete disasters and always had a plan B for everything.
- jacquesm 17y agoIt all boils down to a simple thing: Entitlement. If you feel entitled to stuff then all the problems in the world are caused by and supposed to be solved by others. If you have a 'get up & go' attitude then there is not much that will faze you, after all, you trust in your own competence and judgment to solve things. There is a certain 'complaint' culture, where everybody is just whining about stuff all-day-long. It really can get on your nerves sometimes. So, you complain. Fine, now what are you going to do to fix it. And if the answer is nothing then stop complaining. It's very scary how pervasive this is in society.