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It isn't really about friendship. The article says so, but then you keep reading and get to the actual mechanics. From the article: “It’s friendship and pushi
by slowmovintarget 12y ago
It isn't really about friendship. The article says so, but then you keep reading and get to the actual mechanics.
From the article: “It’s friendship and pushing — they nag them to success,” Barbara Algarin, the executive director of Match Education, which runs the tutoring program, told me. “These students can make remarkable progress when they appreciate that their tutor is in their corner. The math connection leads to better study skills and a love of learning. Grades improve across the board.”
That's essentially parenting, not friendship.
- jacinda 12y agoI don't know about that. It's hard to be effective at "nagging someone to success" unless they have a positive bond with you (friendship). All the nagging in the world from someone you don't trust just makes you stonewall. Conversely, a push from a slightly older, more accomplished peer can be very motivating. Some sports examples might include a varsity player telling a JV player: "Come on, just one more lap!" "We're not leaving the field till you get a goal past me." Etc. My sense when I read the quote you pulled out was that nag was not the best word choice for what they described the students doing.