The point is focus. Yes you can/should complain when a situation arises. But a lot of people (myself included some times) seek out things to complain about. It'

The point is focus. Yes you can/should complain when a situation arises. But a lot of people (myself included some times) seek out things to complain about. It's like a disease. If you find yourself primarily reading the HN stories that make you angry, or if you always go to the coffee shop when it is most busy... stop it.