It may feel like that but we don't know his true motive. I'll take him at his word that he is seeking an avenue by which to build real relationships with peopl

It may feel like that but we don't know his true motive. I'll take him at his word that he is seeking an avenue by which to build real relationships with people. For example, if your spouse has an interest, you declined to share it until you realize it could bring you closer together, and then you pursue her interest with her then who am I to say you aren't really into it? Just like you can develop a taste for IPA beer you can develop a true enjoyment of football. I think your point is better taken as, this is a good idea but be careful not to misuse or misunderstand it's goal.