> One of the most annoying places to be right now is to have sympathies with both sides of these issues and to try to discuss things rationally and evenly. I w

> One of the most annoying places to be right now is to have sympathies with both sides of these issues and to try to discuss things rationally and evenly. I was once labeled an "MRA" for suggesting sexual assault (or worse) and IPV statistics might be more balanced between different genders if the data collection efforts weren't skewed so far toward a single gender. I used to be a lot more idealistic, but ideologues broke me of that faulty thinking.