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See also http://www.salon.com/2013/10/02/my_embarrassing_picture_went_viral/ http://www.salon.com/2013/10/02/my_embarrassing_picture_went... "The most common response was not remorse or defensiveness but surprise. They were startled that I could hear what they’d been saying."