Sex is not fun. Someone needs to say it. Unless you and your partner are devoted to sex it is not fun. In a society where one of the partners doesn't have a voi

Sex is not fun. Someone needs to say it. Unless you and your partner are devoted to sex it is not fun. In a society where one of the partners doesn't have a voice (woman, usually) that doesn't matter because consent is per-definition not necessary to produce children. Games probably trigger a lot more endorphins than sex (over the span of a day, or week). Education means to care about things other than the immediate future and we learn to sympathise with each other. We do care about the opinion and about other goals which is why we spend time caring about the bigger goals more than about the fun ones. After all: fun is for children... This whole combination makes enjoying sex incredibly difficult imho. Making sex fun is an effort many people don't go through. I talk with Japanese friends (I am living in Japan for 4 years now) and many just don't know the least about it. I am guessing that its similar for other cultures.