I agree with you. But she's saying things which are, in my opinion, untrue. It's easy to say "good job, you're stronger than that" and it is helpful. For every

I agree with you. But she's saying things which are, in my opinion, untrue. It's easy to say "good job, you're stronger than that" and it is helpful. For everyone else that is not in a better mental state there should be an objective discussion from a wider viewpoint. Anyway, the submission has been flagkilled so I guess HN is not the place for such a discussion.