> Right now, she's trying to justify them. But most people can only do that for so long before attempted accommodation turns to anger and resentment. Or before

> Right now, she's trying to justify them. But most people can only do that for so long before attempted accommodation turns to anger and resentment. Or before they meet someone new and interesting. No, I don't mean that old and tired "she's looking for the next best thing" or "he's a stepping stone" or "she's easy prey" crap. What I mean is that tiny, contingent moment she will/may accidentally meet someone who will peak her curiosity. Then all these attempts (and she is doing some really really heavy lifting there) fail one after the other.