Oh god, I didn't realize the linked site was your own. So, in the interest of explaining why I was such an ass, allow me to donate some un-asked for constructiv

Oh god, I didn't realize the linked site was your own. So, in the interest of explaining why I was such an ass, allow me to donate some un-asked for constructive criticism: your site suffers from a lack of contrast/color and also lack of "breathing room" (line-heights and margins are too small). It's not just a matter of taste; it actually taxes the eye and makes it harder to absorb your content. Which isn't bad by the way. Just a bit hard to focus on.