Are you suggesting everyone wait around while she finishes her thought when another person could say it quicker? ... She needs to take lessons in assertiveness

Are you suggesting everyone wait around while she finishes her thought when another person could say it quicker? ... She needs to take lessons in assertiveness to build her confidence so she can get her views across and not be ignored from basics like a weak voice or poor posture How could you possibly know that from what he posted? You're introducing your own conception of her, and attributing things to her that were no where in his post. Her lack of assertiveness, confidence, weak voice, poor posture, etc were created purely in your mind.