So there's this term I love that has sort of fallen out of use recently, but it's useful in this conversation: "grinfucker" IE, the kind of person that is soc

So there's this term I love that has sort of fallen out of use recently, but it's useful in this conversation: "grinfucker" IE, the kind of person that is socially extremely polite and gracious, but fucks you over in subtle ways. I totally agree with the spirit of this article, but I think they've defined "asshole" as "caustic person". I think the most corrosive people are actually the grinfuckers -- the people that will smile at you one day and stab you in the back the next. I like caustic people! They might be difficult in the moment, but at least they're honest.