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Ask HN: Why do people get absorbed by some things but not others?
As succinctly as I can: How and why do people have genuine interest in things? How do they maintain that interest over time? What initially determined their interest in that thing?
My thoughts on this question stem from noticing how people do a faster and better job when they are interested in a task. In my own life, I've noticed times when I've been obsessed with programming, or a video game. However, I've also had many times where I had to work hard to force myself to solve problems - I just couldn't convince myself to care. I want to understand what the difference is, and hopefully exploit the knowledge to have a more productive and comfortable life.
In other individuals, I've been envious of their ability to stay deeply engaged with things for long periods of times. Some of the most successful people I know are ones who somehow continue to care about a topic long after others would've given up. Why do they continue to care?
I've also noticed there is a difference between genuine interest versus actions driven by a 2nd order interest (e.g. "I'm doing X for the money", "I'm doing X because I'm obligated"). Activities driven by 2nd order interests seem less skillfully performed. Unfortunately, humans seem wired to have genuine interests in short-term rewards, which ends up meaning there is a performance hit for long term goals since "I'm doing X so one day it will pay off". It would be more ideal to just prefer things which would be long term good for you.
I've read a lot about Flow, but I don't think thats the entire answer. For example: I know a lot more about programming know than I used to...but I don't stay up until 4 AM coding stuff any more.
I expect some responses about burnout at well, which is actually part of the question. How do people go harder than others, and not burn out? How can I have this for myself?
- terminalcommand 12y agoThe point is staying away from burnout. In my opinion we all have genuine interests in some fields. In my case they are computers. Over the past few years I have noticed that if I neglect things that truly interest me like building a compiler or reading about automata theory just because I had to do other things (study for finals etc.) my performance drops. It may sound a bit metaphysical; but I think everyone in this world has a purpose in life and we are all suited for different interests. It is important to protect our hacker spirit and our general enthusiasm for life. These words may sound a cliché for depressed person; nevertheless in my own experience they proved to be right. If you and more importantly your subconscious believe that you are not wasting your time and improving, you will experience joy and satisfaction. It will be much more easier to cope with circumstances and acknowledge the unpredictability of fate. You will naturally show a genuine interest in everything, because you are supported by a purpose that you believe in. I have experienced several burnouts and severe depressions; and at times I thought I had lost my faith in computers. But when I embraced them back, it all went away, not at once, but eventually. Kill your darlings had a wonderful quote on this topic: "Some things, once you’ve loved them, become yours forever. And if you try to let them go, they only circle back and return to you. They become a part of who you are, or they destroy you." If you want some philosophical background on this topic I would suggest reading more about Stoicism. a guide to the good life: the ancient art of stoic joy is an excellent hands-on book about the practical parts of it. -BTW, I discovered it through an HN Post-
- megaultra 12y agoThis book might be of interest to you: https://leanpub.com/indoctrinator https://leanpub.com/indoctrinator I haven't read it though, so I can't comment on it's efficacy.
- rahimnathwani 12y agoCheck out the book 'Flow' for one potential answer, or this TED Talk if you have less time: http://www.ted.com/talks/mihaly_csikszentmihalyi_on_flow?language=en http://www.ted.com/talks/mihaly_csikszentmihalyi_on_flow?lan...