Your mention of community college reminded me that I had a friend in similar circumstances several years ago (young, bright, but inexperienced and no contacts,

Your mention of community college reminded me that I had a friend in similar circumstances several years ago (young, bright, but inexperienced and no contacts, plus in his case new country). I advised him to take a programming course at the local community college, but I told him the greatest value he'd get was almost certainly not what he would learn in class, but the connections he would make with students and faculty. Fortunately for him (and for my reputation as a sage) before the first semester was over the boss of one of his fellow students literally knocked on his door to recruit him. At the time he was sleeping on his brother's couch. Don't be afraid to ask for help from family if it's available, it can be crucial, and one day you'll return the favor.