Exactly. After all, are they supposed to "excuse" it at all ? "Sorry <dude>, you are a really strong candidate and we were happy to talk with you, but in the e

Exactly. After all, are they supposed to "excuse" it at all ? "Sorry <dude>, you are a really strong candidate and we were happy to talk with you, but in the end we decided to go forward with other candidates that are a better fit for the profile we are seeking." No harsh feelings, no lies, no harm done.