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I'm in the same boat. Late 20s with a very thin layer on top combined with male pattern baldness. It runs in the family. I've embraced becoming bald. I keep it
by JamesLeonis 12y ago
I'm in the same boat. Late 20s with a very thin layer on top combined with male pattern baldness. It runs in the family.
I've embraced becoming bald. I keep it very short and rocked the look. A simple electric razor is enough to keep the longer portions around my head in check. Every now and again I use a blade razor to give myself a clean bald look.
Now onto networking. It's a skill, and like any skill it can be learned. There is a lot of material about how to converse and become interesting, but all of them require practice in front of people. It sucks for the first few times, just like starting a new workout routine. It will feel discouraging when you don't see results the first few times. Keep at it. It helps to keep track of the number of people you talked to and roughly how long you talked. You can then try and increase those numbers just like adding weight to a workout. After a while you will start to notice it's coming out naturally.
The best way to keep people interested in you is to become interesting. Yeah, that's a "DUH!" kind of statement, but buried in there is a grain of truth. Sit down with a pen and paper and start listing all the cool things you have seen and done in your life. What makes you excited? What makes you wistful? What do you long for? Use that list as a foundation, even if you only have a couple of items. If it's blank, then you have the opportunity to explore many different experiences and see which you like and don't like.
The hardest part of all of this is getting started. Intertia is a hell of a resistance. Start small and get into a habit. Habits can be hard to start, but they are also hard to break. Starting small helps get over the initial inertia with small steps while you build the habit. Once you start getting into the rhythm, you add harder and more difficult steps to build up your habit. This is how you build any successful system or learn a new skill. Be open to mistakes and failure as an opportunity to examine and learn. Turn hostile criticism into positive critique.
None of this is easy, but with repeated attempts it does get easier. You still have your 30s and 40s to be a god damn rock star.