https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-offenders https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assa... There is a lot of gre

https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-offenders https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assa... There is a lot of grey in this area, and there are lots of opinions that can sway people one way or the other. I was raped, but not violently raped. I've heard arguments from both sides. Can you imagine being a rape victim trying to determine whether they were actually raped or not? It sucks. I don't like talking about it with people outside of the internet. I've seen thousands of facial reactions to people reacting to a blank description of it, because I'm still too ashamed to describe it. Counselors aren't supposed to judge, but they do. I was called a pathological liar, in counseling, years after the rape had happened. The people you think are supposed to be there for you the most, can sometimes understand you the least. I have been argued with and screamed at over whether I was raped or not. It just makes me feel kind of dead inside. I don't have anything to say to you aside from the fact that determining what 'real rape' is, can be as complicated as determining whether witches exist or do not exist, or anything else you think is really complicated. You can't really prove it either way, and all you are really doing is convincing a group of people to think like you, without them having to be you. How many times do I have to tell myself whether I was raped or not, until I believe it? I don't really care. I just know that shit is complicated, and there aren't easy answers to anything that is complicated.