You dont talk about one thing. You have kids. That puts a huge amount of responsabilty on you and pushes you to work more. > I'm always busy, because I want to

You dont talk about one thing. You have kids. That puts a huge amount of responsabilty on you and pushes you to work more. > I'm always busy, because I want to wring every ounce of awesome I can out of life. I do so too. I have never enougth time to read all the books and do all the project that I would want to do. Not to mention all the other stuff I would like to do. Overall I agree with you, you really have to take some time, look at your live and figure out what you want, what makes you happy and what does not, and then changing that. This of course means that one needs some flexibilty, if you live with no savings and with a familiy one can not just drop everything and go on a bicycle world tour.