Being young myself (early 30s) most of my male friends are terrified of marriage because their parents are all mostly divorced and its ugly. Men now see marria

Being young myself (early 30s) most of my male friends are terrified of marriage because their parents are all mostly divorced and its ugly. Men now see marriage as a huge risk, if your wife decides she doesnt like you any more she takes at least 50% of your assets and if you have children its very unlikely the state will give you custody and you will be on the hook for child support if you cant pay (because you get a worse job etc) you will go to debtors prison.