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Seems like someone needs to read this again: http://xkcd.com/552/ http://xkcd.com/552/ People consuming more porn is a more likely a symptom of what's going on
by msandford 12y ago
Seems like someone needs to read this again: http://xkcd.com/552/ http://xkcd.com/552/
People consuming more porn is a more likely a symptom of what's going on rather than the cause. As whatever forces cause people to be less likely to get married it creates a larger market for porn that the industry is more than happy to supply in greater quantities.
What forces are causing people to be less likely to get married? I can speculate but I suspect it's highly multifaceted. I doubt there's one thing that's largely to blame but more of a death by a thousand papercuts kind of situation.
1. Housing is a bigger commitment
2. Job security is less available making buying real estate less attractive
3. Expectations of what should happen once you get married aren't necessarily realistic
4. Ending a marriage is highly speculative and non-negotiable (a judge says what goes and that's it) and can have lifelong or very long-lasting consequences financially
5. There's a lot less societal pressure to get married to have kids from a moral perspective
6. The economic incentive for a woman to get married so she can stay home to raise kids has largely disappeared as pay equality has largely arrived (so has the notion that it's what a woman should do). It's not 100% across the board but women don't work for 30% of what men do, meaning that marriage might only bring a marginal improvement in financial circumstances.
7. Child support being completely unrelated to marriage means that women can choose not to settle for a man they once liked/loved but who isn't their ideal partner.
I'm not saying that any of these factors are good or bad or just or unjust. I suspect that there are 20 more factors that I couldn't think up in the last 10 minutes.
- jseliger 12y ago1. Housing is a bigger commitment Interestingly, this is a policy choice—and a bad one—foisted on us primarily by incumbent land owners who vote: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0078XGJXO http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0078XGJXO , rather than a law of nature.