>For me, the fire is my death. For the context of the discussion, the fire is sexism in tech I get that. But sexism in tech is an invented problem. It isn't

>For me, the fire is my death. For the context of the discussion, the fire is sexism in tech I get that. But sexism in tech is an invented problem. It isn't real. I didn't start experiencing any sexism in tech until the "tech is sexist" trope started. Now I get it all the time, from people who think they are helping by treating me differently. I'm curious about this whole death thing for you though. Do you genuinely believe that there is some epidemic of black men getting killed by police? Are you aware of all the white men who have been killed, or has the complete lack of media coverage of those deaths been effective in keeping them from you? Have you stopped to consider that perhaps your situation is not as unique as you assume it to be, and that maybe you are no more on fire than anyone else?