I wasn't referring to you; I just found a plausible place to reply to OP. There were plenty of real naysayers in the thread, though. And even more that were jus

I wasn't referring to you; I just found a plausible place to reply to OP. There were plenty of real naysayers in the thread, though. And even more that were just very insensitive. (Again, I'm not referring to you).