After dating a transwoman, I came away with the strong opinion about what being transgender is from a biological/psychological point of view. What I learned wa

After dating a transwoman, I came away with the strong opinion about what being transgender is from a biological/psychological point of view. What I learned was - it boils down to is a missmatch between the software, and the wetware - the thing is, many people have this, many who are successful and happy in the body they have - but there are some, a minority of those afflicted who simply cannot deal with that missmatch - I don't know why they can't (up bringing, inability to extend beyond classic gender identity, something biological, not really sure) - but whatever the cause, they can't, and those are the folks that generally end up identifying as transgender, and going thru the process of transition to remove the discongruity between the hardware and software. I don't (well try not to, I'm only human) place a value judgement on it, its about finding your own happy place where you can flower into a good person.