> After reading this and its complacent I've-learned-as-much-as-I-need-and-besides-I-have-kids attitude If you think he's claiming that he's learned all he nee

> After reading this and its complacent I've-learned-as-much-as-I-need-and-besides-I-have-kids attitude If you think he's claiming that he's learned all he needs, I don't think that you really did read TFA. > I know at least five guys who have small children and hack in their spare time. Yes, it's a struggle, but they all do it. I also know quite a few with small children who never do that. They never did before they had kids, either, but the kids furnish a nice excuse. Kids are handy that way. Yeah, well, work sure does furnish a nice excuse for not being present in your kids' lives too. You can play this from both angles.