Reading this brought back some fantastic memories of my youth (that is sarcasm, teenage and early 20's years were not fantastic when it came to relationships).

Reading this brought back some fantastic memories of my youth (that is sarcasm, teenage and early 20's years were not fantastic when it came to relationships). I am sorry someone would say something like that to you. Don't let her get to you though! To cheer you up, here's a joke from my youth (it will date me): A lawyer, a doctor, and a programmer sit at a bar. The lawyer says, "Boys, you need to try having a mistress! It is great. We do anything we want and my wife never finds out!" The Doctor looking shocked says, "Oh my no! There are so many problems with a relationship like this. Diseases, mental and emotional stress. Stick to your wife! That's the right way." The programmer looks in his drink and with a knowing smile tells them both, "The answer is, of course, to have both a wife and a mistress! Then you can tell your mistress you are with your wife, and tell your wife you are with your mistress, and have more time on the mainframe! The mainframe is always less busy late at night anyway." [1] I had a girlfriend! I was very happy when she said she would marry me. We are celebrating our anniversary this weekend. We have 6 kids together. I code a lot. I enjoy businesses. I play with my kids. I take my wife on dates. As everyone else in the thread has said, don't worry about what this girl thinks! You are the right young lady will find each other at the right time and everything will work out just fine. [1] For those that don't get the mainframe portion of the joke: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Time-sharing http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Time-sharing