"programmers don't usually have girlfriends" Uhhh, no. Life is like taking a trip. It's way more fun when you have someone to enjoy it with you. Your experien

"programmers don't usually have girlfriends" Uhhh, no. Life is like taking a trip. It's way more fun when you have someone to enjoy it with you. Your experience is enriched by their experience. That said, being single has it's merits as well, which I am sure the married among us remember a little too fondly and with rose colored glasses. Go to meetups. Not with the intention of meeting someone, but to meet other people and have fun. The rest will fall in place.