Been married twelve years & loving it. My wife is my friend, my lover, and my gaming rival. I wouldn't say she distracts me from my work. It's just that most o

Been married twelve years & loving it. My wife is my friend, my lover, and my gaming rival. I wouldn't say she distracts me from my work. It's just that most of the time I'd rather snuggle with her and watch TV or play a round of Innovation than hack on code in my free time. Work time is work time, though. I work from home, but I set boundaries. If you're at the age where "everyone else works on making out with other people", then know that everyone else is still figuring it out, too. It's ok. Don't feel pressured to be in a relationship or think less of yourself if you're single. Let relationships happen on their own and you'll be much happier. Also, don't try to find somebody to love; try to be someone people can fall in love with. Be a good person, but not artificially good. Be friendly & supportive. Find yourself and find your passions - this is the time in your life to experiment with different hobbies, sports, and future careers. It's so much easier to fail at something and get back up on your feet again when you're young. Who knows, you may find theater or track to be more interesting than computers and there's nothing wrong with making a living from either.