I forgot about this perspective, and I'm glad you described, since it does resonate with me. However, the fact is, we do not have the anatomy required to actua

I forgot about this perspective, and I'm glad you described, since it does resonate with me. However, the fact is, we do not have the anatomy required to actually bear children. Everything you identified is certainly true, but there are definitely certain aspects to child bearing that are uniquely female in nature. Those are things that I can do my best to understand, but that's difficult being a male. The parent comment to yours is certainly correct: a pregnant female is in a different position than a male parent. There are certainly parallels and similarities, but some things are unique to a mother.