> "you quit your job and drag your family halfway across the US for this "golden opportunity", and then you find out that this person is by far the biggest jer

> "you quit your job and drag your family halfway across the US for this "golden opportunity", and then you find out that this person is by far the biggest jerk that you have ever met and you cannot work with them." Honestly, now. If you're bold enough to take this kind of risk , be bold enough to recover from a bad decision.