There are predominant gender roles. How can we determine if the predominance is wrong, or just natural? All of this assumes the predominance is wrong. If I go t

There are predominant gender roles. How can we determine if the predominance is wrong, or just natural? All of this assumes the predominance is wrong. If I go to enjoy a burlesque show (a largely female-dominated event that all consensually participate in), did I merely experience the predominance, or did I also reinforce it? If the majority like something even though a minority do not, does that mean the majority are somehow wrong?