On the one hand, those are very interesting questions to discuss. On the other hand, getting/having children is a deeply rooted desire/need in humans, and pass

On the one hand, those are very interesting questions to discuss. On the other hand, getting/having children is a deeply rooted desire/need in humans, and passing judgement on it feels like passing judgement on the decision to eat food, sleep, breath, or having sex. Can you blame somebody for eating when hungry? Even when it has far-reaching consequence some fifteen years later?