That is why I mention the good food. Shared consumption creates the bond. If there is just alcohol, you cut off a significant minority. I regularly drink non-a

That is why I mention the good food. Shared consumption creates the bond. If there is just alcohol, you cut off a significant minority. I regularly drink non-alcoholic beer at these things. It's okay for the first two hours, after which it is perfectly acceptable to leave. If there is peer pressure to drink, then people get in trouble for being unprofessional.