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> It's a recognition that people don't have personalities, they'll just mold to fit whatever they're placed in front of. I've seen so many relationships end in
by fragsworth 12y ago
> It's a recognition that people don't have personalities, they'll just mold to fit whatever they're placed in front of.
I've seen so many relationships end in disaster because of this. In the beginning of the relationship, one or both participants will pretend to be someone they're not, so they can please the other one. Later, they always revert to their normal behavior, and this usually ends the relationship.
- tedks 12y agoI would say that they get bored, and where they were willing to put in effort (which all relationships require) at the beginning, they aren't now. Which again, isn't surprising. Even people who get married and think they'll be together for the rest of their life get bored and leave about half the time. I think that the trend is towards shorter, less emotional relationships, because nobody wants to get serious; everyone wants to have fun. Nothing that's not fun is worth doing. Who knows, maybe the next Tinder will be more like Uber.