What do you mean by become? If you are a deep love with your self, everything you do is wonderful and exceptional by definition. The only thing to bother about

What do you mean by become? If you are a deep love with your self, everything you do is wonderful and exceptional by definition. The only thing to bother about (otherwise naive self-deception will be broken by cognitive dissonance) is that it must be not easily obtainable or achievable for, you know, "other people". We had one web designer hotshot in Moscow who years ago said proudly in his blog - "I have been in 77 different countries" (we wished to comment "but haven't got any smarter", but let it pass). Nowadays it is about "difficult (read - expensive) to reach" places and/or "having that ultra hi-tech gear", but that is just another form of exhibitionist consumption or "consumption as way to distinguish oneself" (what nonsense!). Have you seen these modern Everest climbers? it is all about money and expensive stuff. There is mt.Dhaulagiri which is only few hundred meters less of height and much more difficult to claim - no one is there - one or two professional teams per year at most.